![]() ![]() Several open yet separate rooms had various beds and couches scattered about, and most were occupied with couples having sex or several people tangled up in each other. It was more humorous than sexy, and everyone seemed to be trying really hard to look natural and comfortable.Īs we finished our drinks, a dancer entered and cleared the room to perform a striptease on the pole.Īn older man loudly whooped and yelled throughout the entire performance, but it wasn’t anything crazy and we decided we wanted to go downstairs to see more. Several other couples were hanging around the bar, and within moments, a woman was bent over and being spanked. Several screens showed various porn movies, there was a stripper pole in the middle of the room, and the bartender was in fishnets and underwear. ![]() We headed to the bar to have a glass or two of champagne first and take in the scene. Other than that, the jacuzzi, outdoor terrace and play room were our proverbial oyster. After climbing three flights of red carpeted stairs, were reached the entrance where we were told the house rules: simply approach others you’re interested in, but if they put up a palm, it signals “no”, and vice versa. I put on a new set of Agent Provocateur lingerie and sent a selfie to my BFF (who is a psychologist and was also super curious to hear about our experience) before we grabbed a bottle of champagne and hopped in an Uber - the club is BYOB, but there’s a bar you bring your alcohol to so a bartender can serve it to you.Īs soon as we arrived, we were buzzing. The Friday finally rolled around, and I had a glass of wine while getting ready for the evening. We weren’t up for letting others join in though, and agreed if it was something either of us wanted to do in the moment, we could talk about it afterwards and go back for another visit to possibly pursue. We love visiting strip clubs together (who doesn’t love a gorgeous woman dancing around?) so we knew we’d be comfortable with nudity, but laid out a few ground rules before we went.įor us, we decided if we felt like it, we would be game to have sex in front of others. Follow on Twitter, Tumblr or Facebook.We didn’t necessarily go with the intention of swinging, swapping partners or even “playing” (as the site described) with others - we were just curious and keen to explore something sexually new. Williams is also the voice behind Politically Unapologetic, a blog where she unabashedly discusses culture, life and love. She has made appearances on the Tom Joyner Morning Show and Santita Jackson Show. Her work has been featured on popular urban sites, such as The Grio and AOL Black Voices. ![]() LaShaun Williams is a lifestyle and relationship columnist, blogger and social critic. Some are just focused on enjoying the goodness that can be found in all races. In no way are black women the slightest bit obsessed with white men. Equal-opportunity dating means women are no longer reliant on the affection of a relatively small pool of men and, with increased options, higher standards are easier to maintain. All that matters is that he is a man of strong character who you can see yourself boning.įor black men who want to have their cake and eat it too, this form of shared enlightenment translates as obsession when it’s really quite the opposite considering an overwhelming majority of black women prefer black men. There is nothing taboo about dating anyone of any race. Much like black men looked past the lynching, disfigurement and deaths of young boys like Emmett Till for flirting with white women, many black women have found the capacity to look beyond past (and some present) ignorance. Of course a history of slavery, rape and abuse are reasons for a subconscious sour taste but, in 2011, the landscape is much different. So, it stands out when they date out-especially each other. The focus merely appears to be placed on white men for two reasons: It’s most taboo and white men and black women statistically date outside of their races least.
0 Comments
Leave a Reply. |
AuthorWrite something about yourself. No need to be fancy, just an overview. ArchivesCategories |